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I tend to react to my own feelings of jealousy by asking myself what’s behind that emotion: It’s usually something like fear of inadequacy, or yearning to be special.
Once I start addressing my own fears, I find that I can focus on feeling happy for my partner(s) instead of bad about myself.
You might not get everything your heart desires, but boundaries and self-discipline can feel surprisingly good, sometimes even better than getting everything you thought you wanted.
Being poly does not give you a license to do whatever you want indiscriminately or without consequence.
Since you customized this relationship, a transgression is just as (if not more) hurtful as it would be if you were monogamous.
Polyamory & Ethical Non-monogamy are based on the understanding that love is infinite. Our meetups are held in Wake, Durham & Orange Counties predominately.If you have friends who are non-monogamous, you might be curious: How does it work for them, and how could it work for you?Respectful questions are all well and good, but take it from someone who has been poly for many years: There are some things that we are really tired of having to explain.When making new friends or acquaintances at our meetups, please take all precautions that you would if meeting a complete stranger at your favorite cafe, bar, or so forth.“Monogamish.” “Ethical slut.” “Polyamorous.” “In an open marriage.” These days, it can that seem there are as many words for people who engage in non-monogamous relationships as there are LGBTQIA signifiers.
Each couple, throuple, or group discusses where those desires and boundaries overlap and which ones require compromise.